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		<title>Humility is the Quiet Skill of Creativity</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 05:05:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce DeBoer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If being an expert at anything means you abandoned your need for approval then it has real value. Unfortunately, revered talent has much more to lose than those rewarded for trying.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Flash Video Resizer 1.3 : 540pixel --><p><em><span style="color: #999999;">“When weaving a blanket, an Indian woman leaves a flaw in the weaving of that blanket to let the soul out.”  –<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martha_Graham " target="_blank"> Martha Graham</a></span></em></p>
<p>Reading words were once hieroglyphics.  With talking, early on I was incomprehensible.  With walking, ask a stroke victim how hard it is to relearn those first steps.  Apparently we’re not afraid to be terrible when desire is high or fear is low.  Conceivably, groundwork might be easier without speech so we couldn’t talk ourselves out of trying.</p>
<p>Enjoy your badness because once you&#8217;re accomplished, there will be times when you&#8217;ll swear you were once better than you are.  Backsliding is much less fun than improving; there is fulfillment in working your way up from the mail room of creative talent.</p>
<p>If being an expert at anything means you abandoned your need for approval then it has real value.  Unfortunately, revered talent has much more to lose than those rewarded simply for trying.  There is something to be said for that grammar school soccer ribbon given for hard work &#8211; win or lose.  All we have to do is try hard to win &#8211; you&#8217;ve already won.  Life is that way &#8211; most success is just being there; so be there.</p>
<p>Finding your humility is the quiet skill of creativity. The justly successful are high achievers in creative humility. It’s why the most talented genuinely rebuff compliments, it keeps expectations low, both internal and external. “No really, I suck – don’t expect me to do this again anytime soon.” – what the artist is thinking.</p>
<blockquote><p>“The common idea that success spoils people by making them vain, egotistic, and self-complacent is erroneous; on the contrary it makes them, for the most part, humble, tolerant, and kind. Failure makes people bitter and cruel.” &#8211; <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._Somerset_Maugham" target="_blank">W. Somerset Maugham</a></p></blockquote>
<p>Accordingly, I believe sustained creative failure to be a refusal to accept humility, and an error isn’t failure unless you give up the flight.  Authentic creatives have a passion for doing; they can’t not-do, and the results are secondary to the act, but no less important than their original idea.  Sooner or later, humility provides freedom to fail.</p>
<p>If something is worth the effort, the rightly talented risks embarrassment. Only the arrogant and conceited perform solely what they look good doing. Humility shrinks our need for approval.</p>
<p>I don’t know about you, but I’m going to wait to begin painting until I’m an expert.  How absurd. <em>&#8220;If a thing is worth doing at all, it is worth doing badly.&#8221;</em> – <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gustav_Holst" target="_blank">Gustav Holst</a></p>
<p><em>- Bruce DeBoer</em></p>
<pre>This post was originally published as a guest post at <a href="http://garyunger.com/blog/?p=326" target="_blank">GaryUnger.com</a></pre>
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		<title>&#8220;Do It Because You Like It&#8221; &#8211; Dan Pink</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 19:51:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce DeBoer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our default is to be risk reluctant and to think things through to a logical end with no deviation from task. We narrow our purpose and use our craftiness to get to the finish line as fast and as free from criticism as possible – we go with what we know when under pressure. Perform with all eyes on you and you’ll do what it takes not to fail, together with relying on a tested formula for success.
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In his TED video presentation, Dan Pink gives an outstanding presentation – argument if you will – for what science asserts truly motivates us. Dan explains that there is a mismatch between what science shows and what business does. Business wants innovation, yet motivates us to be formulaic with a narrow view of problem solving.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Flash Video Resizer 1.3 : 540pixel --><p>By my corporate experience, managers are taught that high productivity is found somewhere near the center of a fear &gt; comfort spectrum.  The good stuff lives in the middle and employee commitment is more desirable than compliance.  The problem is that our instruction to engage employees is faulty.  A one size fits all corporate strategy places individualism on a shelf.  It’s naturally risk averse.  This will be no more evident in the next year than in marketing case studies – marketing ROI is back with a vengeance – but please excuse my digression.</p>
<p>A fear inducing motivation slaughter was no clearer to me than when we experienced a 20% agency layoff.  As painful as it was for everyone, it’s probably most painful for productivity because it died a horrible death only to revive slowly – after much nurturing – a couple weeks later.  It turns out that fear of being next to go stopped folks in their tracks.  Not surprising.</p>
<p>Conversely, those nearly tenured by position where &#8211; beyond a doubt &#8211; the lowest performers on average.  Furthermore, common sense says that to give those folks a raise in reward  would offer higher comfort and still lower performance. Comfort sent a strong message that our default state – doing what we know and following it through to customary success – was not worth a moment’s deviation.</p>
<p>Our default is to be risk reluctant and to think things through to a logical end with no deviation from task.  We narrow our purpose and use our craftiness to get to the finish line as fast and as free from criticism as possible – we go with what we know when under pressure.  Perform with all eyes on you and you’ll do what it takes not to fail, together with relying on a tested formula for success.</p>
<p>Thus is the world of carrots and sticks.  Carrots (comfort) and sticks (fear) produce low motivation.</p>
<p>In his TED video presentation, Dan Pink gives an outstanding presentation – argument if you will – for what science asserts truly motivates us.  Dan explains that there is a mismatch between what science shows and what business does.  Business wants innovation, yet motivates us to be formulaic with a narrow view of problem solving.</p>
<p>Dan shows us that reward in the free economy dulls creative thinking. The if/then rewards program performs well with narrowed focus problems, yet broad creative thinking suffers as a result of conventional rewards.  When we use our mechanical skills, higher rewards yield better performance.   However, even rudimentary cognitive skills suffer with even moderate rewards.  The highest rewarded group of cognitive thinkers do worst of all.</p>
<p>Then what is our native motivation you may ask?  Dan concludes by presenting three areas of motivation:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Autonomy:</strong> The urge to direct our own life.</p>
<p><strong>Mastery:</strong> the desire to get better and better at something that matters.</p>
<p><strong>Purpose:</strong> the yearning to do what we do in service of something larger than ourselves.</p></blockquote>
<p>In short:  &#8220;Do it because you like it&#8221;</p>
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